With eleven months to go, the future bride-to-be and bridegroom should begin planning their budget, research and define the location, and decide on who will take part in the bridal party. Brides generally begin shopping at 9 months before the date, and couples should begin registering for gifts at that point also. -Keepsake Urns are used to hold a little of the ashes and / or tiny items that hold great importance to you and your beloved , for example rings, a lock of hair, small gewgaws, etc this kind of urn is in general used when dividing the ashes between family members and mates, orwhen youd like to have an urn in more than one place. Do you want to be in a position to putthe urn out of doors in a commemorative garden? -If this is necessary to you, be certain to check the full outline for the urns you are considering to work out if they can face up to the out of doors. Invites are sometimes mailed about two months before the marriage date, and the acceptances can be recorded in the marriage planner organizer.